Julie Gladnick. Relationships are tough enough as it is. Although long-distance relationships can be exciting and adventurous at times, distance can also cause additional stress on one or both partners.
You finally met that special someone. You live in two different places and want to make your relationship work. Where to start? Do you want an exclusive relationship or an open relationship? Do you want to talk everyday? Do you want to share visits and how often should you visit?
Talking through what you want out of your long-distance relationship is super important to making sure you are on the same page and will help you avoid conflict based on misunderstood or miscommunicated expectations.
Then just set at time that you are both free to talk. This is important for any couple, but especially when you are long distance. Talk to each other about how you feel special, loved and cared for by your partner. When you are in a long-distance relationship, you may have to be creative or work a little harder to show each other that you care. If physical intimacy is something that makes you feel loved or how you like to show love, talk about some other ways that might help you feel connected while you are apart.
Write each other notes, send flowers, meals or care packages and take time to show interest in one another. It can be easy to feel disconnected when you are apart. When you talk with one another, listen! Ask questions, listen, engage and validate. Following some of the tips above can help you enjoy one another even with miles and miles between you. Originally from the East coast, Julie attended graduate school at John F.
