Reviews and recommendations are unbiased and products are independently selected. Postmedia may earn an affiliate commission from purchases made through links on this page. Paul and I had clearly agreed on casual sex and a no-strings-attached formula, but it seems like I have fallen for him. I think he also has feelings for me, but maybe he is too scared to show his affection and to tell me how he really feels. He often talks about how much he likes me and at the same time brings up his other love interests.
This puts me in a very confused state. Dear Confused: Your question illustrates the idea that β for some people β expressing honesty and emotional intimacy seems to be more challenging than tolerating the uncertainty and other related risks of having casual sex. Your noon-hour look at what's happening in Toronto and beyond. By signing up you consent to receive the above newsletter from Postmedia Network Inc. A welcome email is on its way. If you don't see it, please check your junk folder.
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If you are bold enough, you could undertake the important developmental experience of jumping off the emotional cliff by simply telling the truth. Telling the truth about your own emotions is lovely and liberating, as long as you understand fully that cannot control the outcome.
No matter what Paul says in response, pay attention to what he does. Because sex does not automatically translate into love, you should observe whether he wants to spend time with you doing non-sexual things: Walks, talks, coffee dates, and watching movies.
