Has your once blissful relationship devolved into petty arguments, passive aggressive silence, and a tension that you just can't seem to deal with any longer? Do you feel as if you are simply existing in your relationship instead of thriving?
You started off head over heels for one another but now you can't seem to get through a conversation without fighting and rarely have sex any more. Perhaps what worked in your relationship at one time is no longer effective as your needs have changed.
Maybe you want to reconnect with your partner but aren't sure how to do it. It is likely that if you are like most couples in this or a similar situation you are overwhelmed and feeling. Unfortunately the horizon never approaches and you fall deeper into bad habits and poor communication.
I understand. You want to feel important. You want to feel heard. You want to feel valuable. Most of all, you don't want to feel alone anymore. Couples counseling could be the answer you're looking for. These issues are more common than you may realize.
I can't think of a single relationship that is unlikely to experience difficulty at some point. Many couples rely so heavily on the rush of romantic feelings at the beginning of the relationship that they are ill equipped to handle issues themselves with conflicts arise.
