Seeking: Guys who don't check out women March 31, AM Subscribe I like guys who don't check out women in public or when watching media. I also like guys who don't watch porn. Where do I find them?
I am 28, and have simply found that that's my preference in romantic partners. One of my exes didn't like watching porn, and another didn't check out women. I realize that it's probably going to be someone with a lower sex drive, was brought up in a religious environment, or is more career-focused, or those with a mild dose of social aversion. My question is, in what situations, events or locations, am I likely to find someone like that?
I think people who enjoy volunteering in their free time, or who enjoy non-visual stimulation might skew towards my preference. So would religious people. But I'm sure MeFis would have better suggestions!
Please no comments on how I shouldn't prefer this, or how unlikely it is to find someone like that. Clarification request-- are you looking for men who consciously make the choice not to look at other women i.
OR Are you looking for men who intrinsically don't feel the desire to do so? The social averse are not likely to be the volunteers; both groups might still watch porn. Same with those raised in a religious environment; internal or external restrictions on appropriate behaviors would not necessarily stem watching porn or checking women out. It sounds like you might be interested in dating someone who was asexual or demisexual?
