Love is complicated, right? While hooking up is undoubtedly easier than ever, the acceleration of technology has left some people confused about what they really want, and who with. We had a lot to get through thanks to everyone who submitted!
Pamela Anderson: I heard that this is an epidemic. Does he watch a lot of explicit pornographers or video games? Does he feel numb? Is he sure of his sexuality? Too much masturbation or fantasies about cyber film stars or video games like Fortnite seem to be an addiction.
Wasting time. Is YouTube taking up his time? I guess you must be brave β experiment with getting his attention. Does he share what he fantasises about? What gender? What are his fears? Being a lover is vulnerable, especially to a sensitive person. An empath dives deep and can get depressed, and some are just afraid of love. We share our souls forever with someone we share our bodies with, and that can be scary.
A computer has no attachment. And multiple bodies to look at to get excited about. We must do all we can to keep human connections β we are stronger in pairs. Maybe have this conversation with him as a caring friend. What was the process like, to build self-esteem and security for yourself, being conscious of all those faux stereotypes and ideas about you? Pamela Anderson: Well, I am a woman first. I was raised by fun-loving women who enjoyed all aspects of love and loving, romance and good sex.
It was modelled for me on their voracious behaviors. They were beautiful and bubbly and enjoyed life. Thinking you are too perfect makes men insecure and have to seek attention from others. I just want to walk hand in hand through the streets and kiss and laugh and love. But some men have a fear of treating me as a normal girl. This is what I want more than anything. Pamela Anderson: I have never had a threesome or group sex in a positive way. But to each their own. All my lovers were too jealous.
