In fact, my first relationship was with a girl I met at college. When that relationship ended, I had a few flings with men and women, then I met my husband in a pub. On our first date I told him I was bisexual. He was fine with it, which gave me the impression he was open-minded. If anything, getting married has killed the spark.
Instead of coming to bed with me, he began staying up late, playing on his PlayStation. Upstairs, alone and frustrated, I turned to casual-sex sites for company. I started secretly sexting other women and soon I was meeting them for dates.
I finally told my husband I wanted an open marriage. And some excitement outside the marriage might spark things up at home. I can see why you felt hurt by his lack of interest, but the person you should have talked to was him, not sexy strangers online. Even though you were open about being bisexual, it seems your husband thought he was committing to a monogamous relationship.
If you value your marriage, stop cheating and start talking to him. Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays. You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page. Our sex life has always been unfulfilling. I foolishly hoped it would improve, but it only got worse. She might be asexual and feel no sexual attraction at all.
She might have suffered trauma or abuse in her past, even in her childhood. All these things can be explored and improved in sex therapy. The College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists cosrt.
