We are both in our 60s, so a late-in-life romance is fun and comforting. The problem is, I accidentally discovered his interest in videos of pubescent girls, around 11 or 12 years old. He told me to check a travel video on his computer, and I was shocked to see his viewing history — it also included adult fetish-type imagery. We were at the beach once and when a little girl in her wet bathing suit walked into our beachside cafe, he was transfixed, staring at her. This is troubling to me.
Also, our sex life is peculiar. We make out furiously, but have never been able to consummate our relationship due to his erectile dysfunction. I have to wonder if he is capable of relating to an age-appropriate woman. He is divorced with two grown children and has an 8-year-old granddaughter. Dear Sad: Please reconsider this relationship. Your creepy boyfriend sounds like a pedophile with a foot fetish. If his sexual interest is underage girls with sexy shoes, your bedroom relationship is doomed.
Some of those videos may be illegal to own, and if he has an 8-year-old granddaughter, we would worry for her safety. Dear Annie: I am a year-old female. I have been struggling with depression since I was young. I have had traumatic events happen in my life. Both of my parents died before I was My mother was abusive and my father had to be both mother and father to me. I also have a younger brother. I currently live in foster care. I have recently wanted to learn more about my past.
But I have a lot of questions and some guilt about how I handled things when I was younger. Am I doing the right thing by pursuing this or am I just hurting myself? Dear Battle: We think you deserve to know the truth. But knowing about your past involves the bad as well as the good.
Would it be hurtful? But if you had an abusive mother, your behavior was in response to hers, and you may be feeling guilt for something that is not your fault. Also, please look into counseling to help you sort through any negative feelings that surface. Please email your questions to anniesmailbox creators. You can also find Annie on Facebook at Facebook. Sponsored Content.
