When it's time to have sex with someone new, chances are you have a go-to position you prefer. According to the Millennial Sex Survey by SKYN Condoms of over 3, sexually active men and women aged 18 to 34, most millennial singles are all about doggy style and cowgirl β but the best sex position for you totally depends on you and your partner. However, sometimes it's more simple than that. When a woman is first with a partner, their preferred or 'go-to' sexual position will likely be a position she is most comfortable in, gets the most pleasure from, or feels the sexiest in.
Of course, many variables are involved β the location , the mood, the time of day, how long you've known the person, and so on. Is this a one-night stand , longer-term thing, or something in between? No matter what the case, chances are you'll relate to one of the positions below. Here are millennial women's favorite sex positions to try with new partners. But I'd have to say my sex position with a new mate would be him on top. This allows him to not only take the lead, but gives me a sense of his moves If I want to seriously date this guy, I'll go the traditional missionary route.
But if it's just fun for the night, I'll be into doggy style or up against the wall me facing the wall. I think if we look at each other during sex, it's more intimate, and that's not what I'm seeking with a one-night stand. My favorite sex position with a new female partner is good old-fashioned oral sex. Believe it or not, there are many different ways to have oral think of all the ways you can move your tongue and lips! I would probably choose missionary, though, if I was into the guy becoming my boyfriend, as I feel that it really connects you with your partner.
If I'm hooking up, then anything, really, and for some reason, hookups tend to be more wild than sex with a stable partner. With a stable partner, I feel it's gentler and more loving, clothes not as strewn about as much, and not as much hair-pulling or sex against the wall I feel if I let him be on top for our first time, it gives him all the control, and he'll get used to it.
But with me on top, not only will I have more control regarding my orgasm, but also our sex life overall. Sex is sex. Maybe we come back to my place tipsy and have crazy, all-over-the-room sex. Or maybe we have the perfect date, and making out naturally leads to sex like missionary. As long as we both get off, I'm happy. This is primarily because I find a lot of guys to be selfish, sexually β they come, and then they're done! But if I'm on top, it's like saying, 'Not so fast!
