Of course. What women think about sleeping with a man on a first date. Every woman I spoke to fiercely advocates against sleeping with someone on the first date. Obviously, there are some women out there sleeping with their first-dates. A few of them feel early sex complicates getting to know each other.
To which, my response is: he would have ditched you anyway, 1st or 5th date. That, or he died before he could ask you out for a second date. Antiquated notions perhaps but yet, there has to be some merit to these theories. The Madonna-whore complex is apparently still alive and well in What men think about women who sleep with them on the first date.
I interviewed about guys on this and with the exception of 2 extremes, all of them are in the middle. He feels that if the chemistry was there, the date was great and resulted in sex, this would not deter, but in fact, encourage him to continue dating her. Then, there was the other extreme. This poor man was practically attacked by me during the interview. I would like to declare this man a twat thanks for letting me interview you though.
Probably the most intelligent man I interviewed out of this sorry bunch had great insight: It all comes down to intent. He broke it down to attributes taking different tones once sex has been involved too early. The middle ground. And so, cue the discussion about what makes a slut, a slut. Who are you calling a slut? Maybe it is a sign of the social embracing of the female sexual revolution!
Maybe it was because we just had a more limited vocabulary and experience. Now, as we are all older, casual sex seems to be an accepted outlet and expression. There is a lot less judgement on a man, or woman, for indulging in it. Discussions on this have led me to believe that if a girl is consistently wearing skimpy clothes, she would be considered a slut, whether or not she has ever had sex before in her life. We are all in control of our skin, our front, our presentation β and we choose to believe that your outfit was not accidental.
