Just the mere mention of the word episiotomy can make any woman clamp up down there and cringe. The cut is in a very sensitive area and the recovery can take a month or more, leaving many women to wonder when they can have sex again. The best sex positions after a difficult delivery are the ones that will minimize possible pain and prevent additional trauma. Sadly her story isn't uncommon.
Some women report intense pain in their vaginal area for several weeks, even months, especially with sex, according to the women's health website UBM Medica Network.
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There's no rush and no pressure. Your body just went through a lot and it's imperative that you give it time to heal. Many women who've had episiotomies are freaked out about penetration. They might be scared to have a penis, vibrator, or even a finger in their vagina. Oral sex is a great way to gauge how much libido you have after child birth and how much you can handle. And hovering butterfly is just a fancy way of performing cunnilingus.
According to Women's Health magazine, a woman is instructed to hold onto a wall or headboard for support while straddling their partner's face. You can let your partner do whatever they want, or you can control how firmly the tongue is in place and grind in whatever way feels best.
You've probably used this position before. Women's Health magazine said the main advantage with this position is that being on top helps you control exactly how deeply you are penetrated, at what angle, and how fast. You are the one who's just been through the trauma of childbirth and a surgical cut in the vagina, so you're encouraged to take control and do what feels good for you. This is cowgirl, but facing away from your partner.
